Nina, I am so glad to find someone who has been in the same environment as me. You can be my virtual sister...lol. Congrats on the progress of your recovery. ...
Michael L
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Jun 1, 2001 5:56 pm
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Michael, Would you be willing to elaborate on the OCD traits of your dad? I'm having this sudden hunch about a connection between BPD and NPD here. I'd like...
James
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Jun 1, 2001 6:12 pm
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Hi Susan, Sorry for the late respons. I've been out of country for a while. Yes, I recognize these reactions again. Before splitting, (but we were going to) he...
Carine Hutsebaut
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Jun 1, 2001 6:16 pm
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Hi Michael - Thanks so much for your response. ... That's it! I finally recognized my father's behavior as being manipulative and controlling. It's easy to...
ninawinter9900@...
Jun 1, 2001 8:15 pm
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James, Sure. My dad needs a plan to breathe...lol. He used to ask me if I planned for this...planned for that...the plan was often more important than the ...
Michael L
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Jun 1, 2001 8:58 pm
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Maybe it is just the smell of it and not the wholes? IRIS ... From: RandiBPD@... To: AxisII@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, May 22, 2001 3:36 PM Subject:...
Carine Hutsebaut
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Jun 2, 2001 1:16 am
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You want some more of these? What about the IARD? The "I'm Always Right Disorder" is not a sign but an important symptom of the BOTER (the Beginning of The End...
Carine Hutsebaut
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Jun 2, 2001 1:16 am
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Dear Iris - Your entire post made me laugh! Oh my goodness! I have one form or another of HEWBAD real bad for a long time. If you think 20 months is...
ninawinter9900@...
Jun 2, 2001 4:15 am
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Michael, Thanks. My sudden hunch was a gross generalization that went something like this: NPD is BPD with OCD thrown in. Let me express that in a different...
James
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Jun 2, 2001 6:02 am
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James and Axis Twosies, Does this make sense? You betcha it does. This has got to be the greatest explanation of Cluster B, with the added dimension of some...
Chu7190565@...
Jun 2, 2001 12:34 pm
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James and Axis Twosies, Does this make sense? You betcha it does. This has got to be the greatest explanation of Cluster B, with the added dimension of some...
Chu7190565@...
Jun 2, 2001 5:21 pm
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An interesting piece of neurological research has just been published in Nature Reviews Neuroscience 2, 397 -407 (2001). It is a bit on the heavy side...
James
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Jun 2, 2001 5:24 pm
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I just noticed that a bit of information got left out of the research article. The auxilliary subunits mentioned are named alpha and beta subunits, and...
James
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Jun 2, 2001 5:36 pm
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Rita, Thanks for the support. Rita. ... I agree. But don't leave in a huff - leave in a minute and a huff. Take my wife - please. A funny thing happened on...
James
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Jun 2, 2001 5:39 pm
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Great storytelling, James! The way those four communities interact with their environment also explains the overlap between the disorders--any four communities...
DeborahSu@...
Jun 2, 2001 5:57 pm
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sure I'm game ............ after a florid axis 2 family of origin, 1 BPD spouse, 5 BPD significant others (and countless BP or histrionic just plain others), 2...
biophile
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Jun 2, 2001 6:54 pm
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Dear James - Wow, this was so helpful! I think you've come up with a some very serviceable imagery! Nina ... ...
Nina
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Jun 2, 2001 7:45 pm
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Thanks, Nina. That's helpful feedback for me. I guess to extend the metaphor a little further, we might say that some of our SO's are migrants, like...
James
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Jun 2, 2001 8:22 pm
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James, Ohmygosh! Yes, of course. And, plus the SO migrants who are construction workers, circus people, etc. This is brilliant. Incog << Michael, Thanks. My...
Incog Nito
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Jun 3, 2001 8:45 pm
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Incog, I'm a bit nonplussed by feedback quite this effusive, but thank you. James...
James
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Jun 3, 2001 9:25 pm
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Hi James, No, thank you. I didn't mean to nonplus you effusively. Its just that I'm a very pragmatic person and, from where I've been and what from what I've...
Incog Nito
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Jun 3, 2001 10:51 pm
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James, My pleasure... I'm certainly glad that to my knowledge I haven't had to interact with someone with NPD on an ongoing basis. I am picturing an imaginary...
Michael L
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Jun 4, 2001 6:50 pm
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Dear Michael - ... Well, my exH is NPD, and let me tell you it's many of the "wonderful" qualities you've come to appreciate - but to the tenth power. Sort of...
ninawinter9900@...
Jun 5, 2001 1:51 am
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All, Just finished a court-mandated counseling session with my BPXW...concerning our 3 kids. It was the last of 5 required sessions...that's the good news. The...
Michael L
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Jun 5, 2001 5:09 pm
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My attention was just brought to a book entitled "How to Break Your Addiction to a Person," by Howard M. Halpern. It seemed that it might be germane to some...
James
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Jun 5, 2001 5:42 pm
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... Nina, You've certainly got my imagination going. The new math- Infinity =My (BPXW + OCD dad) qualities to the tenth power lol...anger and denial increasing...
Michael L
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Jun 5, 2001 5:47 pm
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You know, I keep hearing so many of these stories that I'm getting tempted to write something like "Aikido for Self-defense in the Counselor's Office: Joint...
James
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Jun 5, 2001 5:56 pm
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... Nina & Iris, SPPETD has to be my favorite disorder right now...lol I'm one sick puppy. Michael __________________________________________________ Do You...
Michael L
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Jun 5, 2001 7:29 pm
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... Dear Michael - Ooops, sorry, my formula was NOT correct, or else you'd have been VAPORIZED by now. I was so focused on the OCPD in your life, I completely...
Nina
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Jun 5, 2001 7:38 pm
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Nina, OMG... < ...But hostility cloaked under a veneer of helpfulness is much harder to recognize. > I certainly agree that OC's control differently than ...
