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Hello all, Thought our group might like to read this article from the NY Times published August 7th. The article, titled "Study Finds Settling Is Better Than...
Kimberly Posin
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Aug 12, 2008
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This month's issue of California Lawyer has an article under the heading "Expert Advice" entitled "Managing Expectations in Mediation," written by Dan L....
Tom Matychowiak
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Aug 12, 2008
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That's the worst advice I've ever heard for approaching a mediation ... unless of course your goal is to get some more trial experience. --MIKE--...
Mike Young
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Aug 12, 2008
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This approach, in my experience, normally results in a much shorter, albeit unsuccessful, mediation. Steve Siemers ________________________________ From:...
Steve Siemers
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Aug 12, 2008
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Hi Tom,   The paragraphs you shared didn't surprise me. My first thought was that the attorney who wrote this article is confused about what mediation is...
therese gray
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Aug 13, 2008
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While this is certainly overt, and makes us all laugh, it also serves as a good reminder that we are constantly being "spun". A simple call to discuss how we...
Lee Jay Berman
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Aug 13, 2008
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Two words: Legalized Mediation. Given how the legal system has redefined mediation in its own image, this set-the-bar-high-set-the-bar-low approach should not...
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Aug 13, 2008
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I am wondering what you all thought of Geoff Sharp's post "The legal community has learned to accept low-functioning mediation" and the article from the...
Stephanie West Allen
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Aug 13, 2008
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I understand that the article was referring to arbitration and I agree with Lee Jay that initial calls from the mediator's perspective are about rapport...
Roy Baroff
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Aug 13, 2008
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I agree with Lee Jay's comment. I always welcome contact with the parties or their counsel before the mediation begins. I use this to introduce myself and ...
Richard Klinger
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Aug 13, 2008
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I generally do initiate such discussions, and these efforts have given me the impression that most mediations of litigated cases in my legal community do not ...
Tom Matychowiak
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Aug 13, 2008
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At CDRS we do not allow any personal communication or contact between a mediator (or arbitrator) and the parties. We send out a "Notice of Mediation" which...
Peter
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Hello All, Just a quick announcement: The New York State Dispute Resolution Association (NYSDRA) is hosting a teleseminar on Dec. 4 from 1:00- 2:00 pm EST on...
Lee Jay Berman
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Nov 23, 2008
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So much is made of mediation training, and talk about IMI's impending certification that's allegedly due to launch after the first of the year...
Lee Jay Berman
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Dec 1, 2008
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Lee Jay -- I spent 30 plus years as a lawyer solving problems and negotiating solutions as training to mediate.  I should have become a mediator after the...
Robert F. Saint-Aubin
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Dec 1, 2008
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I have no more reason to believe that mediation training makes you a competent mediator than law school makes you a competent lawyer. I've been lawyering for...
Kevin Forrester
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Dec 1, 2008
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Kevin, I really can appreciate your feelings. I have been mediating twenty years now and am always learning something new. Two weeks ago I attended Woody...
therese gray
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Dec 1, 2008
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Agree with former commenters there needs to be a base then the area-specific training, and that much of it takes on much more meaning after there's a ...
Dana Greyson
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Dec 1, 2008
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Identifying my own biases and learning to deal with them would have helped early in the practice. Learning to live with tension and being comfortable with...
Michael H. White
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Dec 1, 2008
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WHAT do you wish you had been trained in that would have better prepared you as a mediator? Two words: Conflict Literacy. More specifically, the Five Core...
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Dec 1, 2008
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Love the long & thoughtful response to this quick question with its many layers of social and economic inquiry. I agree that conflict literacy is critical to...
Victoria Pynchon
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Dec 2, 2008
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And so once again, my specific question for the group is: WHAT do you wish you had been trained in that would have better prepared you as a mediator? Lee Jay...
Lee Jay Berman
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Dec 2, 2008
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After having the question teed up for me so perfectly, I can't resist. I wish I had been trained in biases, heuristics and cognitive illusions. What mediators...
Barry Goldman
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Dec 2, 2008
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Assuming that the focuus is on basic training, I don't have a criticism of the basic training I received at Straus;  I thought the content was as...
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Dec 2, 2008
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I've been intrigued by the range of answers, and have, in fact, learned something from them. So, thanks to all who have voiced up. For me, the most important...
Richard Klinger
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Dec 3, 2008
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Being new to mediation and therefore having just completed the basic training in the spring of this year, I offer this perspective. I do not feel that I missed...
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Dec 3, 2008
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I have spoken with Peter Merrill who has informed me that some online group calling themselves "Grouply" has been sending messages to members of this group,...
Lee Jay Berman
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Dec 5, 2008
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Hi LeeJay, Quick answer: I would have liked more exercises and instructions into tapping into intuition, more role plays that encouraged risk taking on the...
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Dec 6, 2008
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CPR's 2008 Award for Outstanding Contribution to Diversity in ADR In 2006, the CPR Institute assembled the first National Task Force on Diversity in ADR. The...
Victoria Pynchon
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Dec 9, 2008
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I hate to depart from the lofty heights of theory and process skills, but I wish that my initial training had also looked at the business of mediation! ...
Colm Brannigan
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